👨👩👧👦 8 Practical Tips for Parents Teaching Their Teen to Drive in Ireland
For many parents in Ireland, teaching their child to drive is a proud and exciting step. It’s also one that comes with responsibility — and often, a few nerves. While professional instruction is essential, extra practice with a parent can really boost a learner’s skills and confidence.
Here are eight practical tips to help you be a calm, effective, and supportive supervising driver.
1. ✅ Make Sure You're Legally Allowed
Before getting started, ensure you:
- Hold a full Irish or EU driving licence for at least two years
- Are over 21
- Supervise in a roadworthy, insured vehicle with visible L-plates
- Never allow motorway driving — it’s not permitted for learners
Confirm with your insurer that your learner is covered.
2. 🧘 Be Calm and Patient
It’s natural for parents to feel nervous — but try to stay calm and focused.
Avoid shouting or panicking, even when mistakes happen.
Your learner is likely already feeling the pressure.
Speak clearly, stay relaxed, and keep feedback constructive.
3. 🚦 Start in a Quiet Area
Begin driving sessions in low-pressure environments — such as quiet housing estates or industrial parks after hours.
Build confidence with basics like:
- Steering control
- Smooth braking
- Left turns and mirror checks
Move on to more complex traffic situations only when they’re ready.
4. 📋 Work Alongside the EDT
Your child will complete 12 EDT lessons with a qualified instructor.
Ask them what was covered in their most recent session — then help them practise that same skill during your drive together.
This keeps things consistent and reinforces good habits.
5. ⏱️ Keep Drives Short and Focused
Stick to 30–45 minute sessions, especially early on.
Too much at once can lead to frustration or overwhelm.
Pick one or two areas to work on per drive — such as roundabouts or hill starts.
6. 👂 Encourage Self-Reflection
After the drive, talk about what went well and what needs work.
Ask questions like:
- “How did that right turn feel?”
- “What could you do differently next time?”
This builds awareness and encourages them to take responsibility for their own learning.
7. 🚗 Let the Instructor Teach the Complex Stuff
You’re there for extra practice — not to replace a professional instructor.
Avoid contradicting what the driving school teaches.
If you’re unsure about something, ask the instructor directly or attend a session together.
8. 📱 Stay Off the Phone — And Focus
While it’s tempting to check emails or scroll during longer sessions, remember:
you’re the backup driver.
Stay alert, scan for hazards, and guide when needed — especially at junctions, roundabouts, and crossings.
👨🏫 Final Thoughts
Helping your teen learn to drive is a great bonding opportunity and a practical way to build their confidence.
By staying patient, consistent, and supportive, you’ll give them the best chance of success.
At Art of Driving, we welcome parental involvement and offer guidance on how to support learners between lessons.
Book a lesson with us today — and let’s work together to build confident, safe drivers for life.
